There is NEVER an instance where inner-beauty completely outshines outer appearance. Notice I said COMPLETELY. Let me say that again,

There is never an instance in which inner-beauty outshines or overpowers outer appearance.

Some of you may disagree…that is your choice. But you are wrong. Inner beauty is all well and good but a person must have something that is outwardly attractive to you in order for you to become attracted to them. This is human nature. Now it is possible for the two to go hand in hand which is what happens in most cases.

Then there’s this other thing I call the “grow-on-you” syndrome. You know what I’m talking about? Like say you meet this girl or maybe you just saw her for the first time. Now the first time you saw her your face was all scrunched up & you dismissed her. She’s not your type, you don’t like her attitude, she can’t dress, her nose is too wide, she looks like an insect WHATEVER. I’ve felt all types of ways about girls at first. But THEN you see her again..or you talk to her etc. and…she’s not as bad as she was the time before. Then you keep seeing or talking to her & the more she’s around, the less you dislike her or the more you begin to forget why you didn’t like her. You know what I’m talking about now? Like…that b*t(h just grew on you. She’s still that same old wide nosed girl, who laughs funny & can’t dress that well BUT when you look at her…her nose doesn’t look THAT wide anymore.

Now some of you would say that this is a case where inner-beauty outshines outer-beauty but…YOU’RE STILL WRONG. hahaha. If this were the case then we could account for those girls who have great personalities but you would never date because they are “ugly.” The thing I find remarkable about most people (men and women) is that they don’t really know what draws them to a person. Be it her lips, or her smile, the way she walks or the length of her hair, there is SOMETHING that must satisfy you outwardly in order for her insides to be efficient. Think about it. Could you REALLY have sex with someone who was only attractive to you “on the inside” ? I highly doubt it. Quite often I find that a lot of people use “inner beauty” as an excuse when they are ashamed to say that they do in fact find their significant other or the person they’re “talking to” attractive. Just because everyone around you thinks she’s ugly doesn’t mean she is. It just means they have different tastes. Or that she hasn’t had the time to “grow” on them. Don’t let people talk down to you about your girl! And if you agree with them just to save face…smh…well fuck your soul. But in any case, there has to be some sort of balance between inner and outer beauty. One cannot totally overpower the other.